kirbbian:

hey Lesbians I’m doing a lil poll just to satisfy my curiosity. in the process of realizing u were a lesbian, which did u realize/come to terms with first: that u liked women, or that u didn’t like men?

for example, i got crushes on girls at 14 but i didn’t realize until i was 20 that my “attraction” to men was forced. but i know other lesbians that knew they didn’t want to be with men early on, but didn’t realize that they could be attracted to women til later.

i know the answer to this can be complicated, esp w comp het, but just pick the closest answer, or don’t answer if u rlly aren’t sure. for attraction to women, count the first time u realized any kind of attraction, even if it was only sexual or only romantic. for attraction to men, count when u realized that u do not want to seek out men for any kind of relationship, romantic or sexual.

here’s the link to the poll: http://www.strawpoll.me/16852477/r

lesbians, which did u realize about yr sexuality first?

meecherwood:

I know I tell this every 5 minutes but the best day ….of my life…was talking to two elder gays when I was 14 and one of them told me that he put a hex on Patti Lupone to not win the Tony in 2011 because she wouldn’t take a picture with him at the Albuquerque airport