queerrobbiereyes:

cardozzza:

fullofbeautyandrage:

danglelikedatsyuk:

you know what? I don’t think children should be kissing in shows & movies. I mean if you think about it, adults are writing scripts, and then making child actors, who are almost always extremely uncomfortable and usually do not want to do it,  kiss in front of said adults, mainly for the enjoyment of other adults. It’s just creepy if you think about it for like 5 seconds, and given the huge amount of pedophiles working in the entertainment industry, it becomes even creepier. 

I mean you don’t have to totally get rid of stories about children having crushes & dating and what not, but it can very easily be done without showing them kissing and stuff. 

ok for real, I just watched the beyond stranger things discussion with the actors and the Max/Lucas kiss was apparently not in the script, and Max’s actress Sadie literally stated how anxious and uncomfortable she was when she was asked to do a kiss on the day of shooting. her first kiss was on a sweltering set in front of a hundred adults, extras, and her own mom.

and to top that shit off, one of the writers told her that they made her do it BECAUSE she was so freaked out about it!!! They used the actual words “it was your fault” to this actress. Fuck it, I’m pissed again so I’m gonna find and transcribe that part below…

Episode 2 of Beyond Stranger Things. (Paraphrased some because people were talking over each other and to remove unnecessary parts.)

Host: We have to talk about the kiss for Max and Lucas. How was shooting that?

Sadie: You didn’t– (points at Duffer brothers)

Duffer bro: This is all your fault.

Sadie: It is not my fault!

Duffer bro: It is.

Sadie: It was not written in the script. The kiss was not written in the script. I get there the first day of filming the snowball […] and one of you, I think it was you, Ross, said, “Sadie, ready for the kiss?” And I’m like, “What? No! No, that’s not in the script, that’s not happening.” And so the whole day I was stressed out. I was like, “Oh my god, am I gonna have to?” […] It didn’t happen that day, but then the second day of filming the Snowball…

Duffer bro: Yeah, but you reacted so strongly to this. I was just joking. And you were so freaked out that I was like, “Well, I gotta make her do it now.” That’s what happened.

Sadie: That’s why it’s my fault?

Duffer bro: That’s why I’m saying it’s your fault.

People use the fact that Eleven’s actress suggested the other kiss to justify it too, but she said she thought fans would be angry at her if it didn’t happen… I feel so bad for other if these little kids and also Duffer should just straight die.

God, every time I hear about an interview of this damn show, it’s clearer to me that the environment created for the girls it’s straight up toxic, and I really mean particularly for the girls, and it shows in the writing, Nancy straight up isolated of any female relationships, the kids mothers being dumb or ignorant or neglectful of their kids’ lives (barring Lucas’ mom and Joyce), Eleven and Max fighting, and now even bts the girls are forced and pressured to do shit that the power dynamics wouldn’t allow for them to just say no to, it’s fucking disgusting, it’s what it is what they do to children actors.